I know, I know -- you're thinking this happiness tip is pretty bogus. I mean, who doesn't feel happier when they eat? Am I really advocating food-as-joy?
Maybe: It's all in how food is consumed. How often do you eat breakfast standing up or in the car? Do you eat lunch in front of your computer, at your desk, or buried behind a book? How often do you just eat, without also doing something else?
In the wild (or, say, kindergarten), we mammals naturally take breaks to refuel with a snack or a meal. Don't squander this natural rest period by wolfing down your lunch while you read your email, or by sipping a latte while driving to work and calling that breakfast. Practice eating mindfully, paying attention to your food and the people you are with. Notice what you are eating and how quickly or slowly. Breathe. Relax. You will feel more calm and content.
Take Action: If you rarely just eat without also doing something else, start small. Perhaps commit to savoring your food for the first 5 bites, or maybe 5 minutes of every meal. Or to eating one lunch a week by yourself, not at your desk, with no distractions.
May you be happy,
Christine Carter, PhD